Realm of Pain - Sessions

There are many, many ways in which pain of one sort or another can be incorporated into a session, and quite often pain is just one of the elements which go to make up a successful session.

Punishment

If, like my little boy thomas, you feel you need punishment, then that can be administered in one of several different scenarios, such as over the knee (OTK) spanking with hand, hairbrush or paddle. Or if you need something a little more severe then perhaps a few strokes of the cane on your bare bottom will make you think twice. You can if you wish bring a note from someone (a real note from a real person if you wish) who outlines your misdemeanours and suggests an appropriate punishment.

Obviously, particularly if you haven't visited before, we need a way of agreeing the severity of punishment and a way of your letting me know if the severity gets too high without having to break up the scenario. This is usually achieved with a safeword but there other methods which can be used and we will discuss this before a session.

Occasionally I am asked to administer punishment without a safeword but this can only be done safely when I know you well and have a very good idea of your limits and so it is not something I would normally consider on a first visit. I know some submissives really want to "walk the talk" and prove their submissiveness to me by handing over all power over their body. Flattering though this is I know of more than one occasion when this has led to a real problem when the "victim" suddenly realised he was letting himself in for more than he bargained for. This can happen as a pure misunderstanding or misreading by the Mistress rather than as an abuse of the power which has been handed to her. However I must consider your safety and mine when considering such requests.

Torture

Perhaps, rather than punishment, you wish to subject yourself to a little torture? Here I inflict pain upon you for my own devilish purposes rather than to correct your behaviour. Again, there are many scenarios that can be called upon as a vehicle for such a scene, and also as always all levels of pain can be catered for. In some cases it is more the context that is important and the levels of pain are very low. The whole ritual around being led to a chamber to be tortured is highly evocative and conjures up images of the genuine horrors which have taken place in the past, and in some cases are still taking place.

Many people feel a little guilty at being fascinated by torture, but it is a very common fascination, and not just in those who move in BDSM circles. My personal view is that supression of such interests is much less healthy than finding a harmless way of expressing them.

The spanish inquisition, torture during war, captured spies, psycopathic killers; these are all scenarios which can be called upon should you wish it. Please feel free to make any requests you like for scenarios which are of interest to you. You may feel that some of these are taboo in today's society but I am very open-minded and even if I refuse I am unlikely to be offended.