Were there times when, as a child, you found yourselves in situations where you felt deeply embarrassed and humiliated? Perhaps you were scolded or punished in front of the class by your teacher; perhaps you were made to do P.E. in your underpants or knickers because you forgot your kit.
If the above examples strike a chord, then you will be familiar with the astounding array of emotions that those humiliating scenarios can evoke. At the same time the powerful sense of shame can be mortifying but exquisite.
Perhaps as you got older you would incorporate some of the scenes into your fantasies. You might imagine being sent to the Head Girl at school and have your trousers pulled down and your bottom smacked in front of all the other prefects. Or being dominated and humiliated by a particular girl that you liked or feared.
Those feelings that are associated with your own previous experiences of humiliation, both real and imagined, are complex and difficult to analyse, but are very strong. Being able to reproduce those feelings can be an incredible and powerful experience, and many of my visitors wish to do precisely that.
It can be highly cathartic to relive previous painful experiences, or it can simply be very fulfilling to relive something that was very powerful at the time. Also there are many ways I can humiliate you which you won't have thought about! How about being told to go to a ladies underwear store and buy knickers, knowing that when you pay for them the assistant will wonder whether they are for a "friend" or for you. You will then wear those knickers when you visit me and I can humiliate you again by laughing at you in the ridiculous garb.
Whatever your previous experiences of humiliation might be, you can be very open with me and we can discuss how humiliation might be used in a scene. I will always take your thoughts and requests seriously, but I will decide how best ultimately to incorporate these into a scene.